Expert Masterclass: Monogamy, Polyamory or Origami?

On Shaping Your Lovelife & Transitioning from Monogamy to Consensual Non-Monogamy

Led by Psychologist, Sexologist & Relational Therapist Jolien Spoelstra

🗓️ June 24, 2025 | 🕖 19:00 - 20:30 | 💻 Online

🎟️ €11 / €22 | 📺 Replay available for 7 days

🎁 Giveaway included for all attendees

You were told there’s one right way to love.

One partner. One path. One forever.

But relationships are evolving.

And so are we.

You may be feeling satisfied in your relationship—yet still curious.

You may be navigating mismatched desires.

Or you may be wondering if there’s a relational model that fits you better.

Whether you're committed to monogamy, curious about opening up, or somewhere in between—this masterclass is your space to explore it all with honesty, nuance, and expert guidance.

This masterclass is an invitation.

An invitation to understand where you stand—on The Exclusivity Spectrum.

To learn about different relational styles, from monogamy to polyamory to everything in between.

To gain the tools to explore your desires safely and respectfully—without shame or pressure.

This is for you if you:

• Are exploring monogamy, non-monogamy, or something in between

• Want to better understand Open Relationships, Polyamory, and Relational Anarchy

• Are seeking language and confidence to talk with your partner(s)

• Need clarity on where you stand in your relationship—and where you want to go

In this masterclass, you’ll explore:

📜 The origins of monogamy and why it became the norm

🔄 The reality of non-monogamous relational models (Poly, Open, RA & more)

🌈 Where you fall on The Exclusivity Spectrum—and where you want to be

🧠 The inner work and emotional intelligence needed to shift your relationship dynamic

💬 Concrete tools to have the conversation with your partner(s)

🚩 What to watch out for when opening up—and how to protect your connection(s)

Meet Jolien Spoelstra

Jolien is a Psychologist, Certified Sexologist (NVVS), and Relational Therapist with over 20 years of experience helping people navigate the intimate spaces between love and sex.

She runs a private practice in Haarlem, teaches sexology at the post-master level, writes a monthly column in Santé Magazine, and is the author of Zinderend Leven, a bold book on female+ sexuality.

She’s here to help you ditch outdated models and build a love life that’s raw, honest, and yours.

A Safe Space, Always

This session is fully anonymous.

No camera. No mic. No pressure.

Ask your boldest questions. Or just observe.

You are safe here—curious, confused, craving, or clear.

💌 Invite your partner or a friend.

🎟️ Two Ticket Options

✨ €11 – Access to the live masterclass + 7-day replay

✨ €22 – All of the above, plus:

➕ A beautifully designed e-book summary of the session

➕ An extra chance to win our exclusive masterclass giveaway